...Nona sighs. "Words are hard. You're not scary. Having sex with you is a little bit scary, because I already know I can hurt you by accident and I think you could probably hurt me by accident too. But it's okay, because I love you, and we try not to hurt each other, and if we did we could just stop. It's not worth it just to have fun with somebody like Cam when I could wait until I feel better about things instead, but it's worth it with you."